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Katrina Lopez

Katrina brings a warm, empathetic, and non-judgmental style to her therapy sessions. She creates a space that feels safe and collaborative—supporting clients through vulnerability, transformation, and connection in individual, couples, and family work.

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Positive Perspective: Moving From Commiseration to Connection

Relationship, Self-Esteem /

Why We Bond Through Shared Commiseration Does anyone else feel like they bond with others through shared commiseration? I bet you can recall a time. When you are with your friends, have you not complained about another friend? When you are with your family, there is always someone else in the family to be talked about. When you are with your partner, you complain about your day and the stress of life. I would even […]

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Author: <span>Katrina Lopez</span>

Your Problem vs Our Problem: Shifting to the “We” Perspective

Relationship /

“That’s your problem to deal with.” We live in an individualistic society that tells us we need to take care of ourselves before we can form meaningful relationships with others. Can you recall a time when you were told “that’s your problem to deal with?” It could have come from a parent, a friend, a boss, or a partner. What is the story you told yourself at that moment? Here are some common ones: I’m

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How To Rebuild Trust After Betrayal (Even If It Feels Impossible)

Couples Counseling, Relationship /

“I’ll never stay with someone who cheats.” For most, cheating is the ultimate betrayal to experience in a relationship. How many of your friends have told you that they would never stay with a partner who cheats on them? Have you ever said that yourself? “Cheating is a deal breaker.” It seems so simple, easy. However, it is much easier said than done. Maybe you find out that a person you have been dating for

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“The Ick” Or Intuition? Knowing When to Walk Away

Relationship /

I Have “The Ick” Have you heard that phrase? Maybe in casual passing when asking a friend about a recent date. Maybe on a popular media post or video. Did you have to ask what it meant? Did you google it the first time? As a popular turn of phrase, the definition can change based on who you ask or where you look. Here is our working definition of “The Ick.” The Ick: A sudden

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Author: <span>Katrina Lopez</span>

Modern Dating Dilemmas: Ghosting, Breadcrumbing, and “Situationships”

General, Relationship, Self-Esteem /

Have you ever considered the similarities between dating and fashion? Similar to fashion, dating has trends that come and go with the seasons and fan based popularity. Do you remember a time when people used terms such as “courting,” “going steady,” and “getting pinned” when referring to dating and romantic partners? Do you remember when using these terms stopped? Similar to fashion trends, these terms were popular for a period of time and then seemed

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Rebuilding Family Bonds After Stress and Trauma: The Power of Family Therapy

Family Therapy, Parenting, Relationship /

This piece was written by our amazing therapist, Katrina Lopez, LMFT.  The Impact of Stressful Events On Us and Our Relationships: The world in which we live is never short of events that impact our well-being, whether that is through changes in our financial means, feeling emotionally and physically unsafe in society, going through life transitions with little or no support, or just typical everyday stressors. All of these things impact our mental health and

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