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Valentine’s Day Date Ideas in San Diego: What Actually Feels Romantic?

Dating, Relationship /

What actually makes a Valentine’s Day date feel romantic? Is it the restaurant reservation? The perfect view? The pressure to “get it right”? Most couples don’t feel closer because of what they did—they feel closer because of how they felt while doing it. Relationship research shows that when couples share new experiences, the brain releases dopamine and other bonding hormones. That shared emotional “lift” creates connection. You’re not just having fun—you’re building a positive emotional […]

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Sexless Marriage? What to Do When Intimacy Disappears

Couples Counseling, Relationship, Sexual Health /

San Diego Couples Therapy Insights from The Relationship Place A sexless marriage can feel confusing and deeply painful — especially when one partner wants intimacy and the other seems distant, avoidant, or uninterested. Couples often tell themselves it’s “just a phase,” but over time, a lack of sex can create emotional loneliness, resentment, insecurity, and disconnection. At The Relationship Place, we work with couples across San Diego (and throughout CA and TX) who feel stuck

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Female Desire - The Role of Safety and Trust

What Men Don’t Understand About Female Desire

Men's Mental Health, Relationship, Sexual Health /

Why emotional safety, attunement, and trust are the real aphrodisiacs   Female desire is not a switch…It’s an emergent state shaped by safety, trust, and the everyday climate of your relationship. When those conditions erode, desire doesn’t vanish—it goes offline. One of the most common frustrations I hear from men in long-term relationships sounds deceptively simple: “She just doesn’t want sex anymore.” It is usually said with a mixture of confusion, resentment, and quiet grief,

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Positive Perspective: Moving From Commiseration to Connection

Relationship, Self-Esteem /

Why We Bond Through Shared Commiseration Does anyone else feel like they bond with others through shared commiseration? I bet you can recall a time. When you are with your friends, have you not complained about another friend? When you are with your family, there is always someone else in the family to be talked about. When you are with your partner, you complain about your day and the stress of life. I would even

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Moving Into the New Year with Intention and Emotional Care

Moving Into the New Year with Intention and Emotional Care

Relationship /

January can feel heavy. Learn how to move into the New Year with intention, gentle rituals, and deeper relational connection without pressure or unrealistic resolutions. January has a way of sneaking up on us emotionally. We go from twinkle lights, warm gatherings, and the comforting structure of the holidays to cold mornings, early sunsets, and a sudden pressure to “fix” ourselves with resolutions. If you’re feeling a dip in energy or motivation right now, you’re

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Your Problem vs Our Problem: Shifting to the “We” Perspective

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“That’s your problem to deal with.” We live in an individualistic society that tells us we need to take care of ourselves before we can form meaningful relationships with others. Can you recall a time when you were told “that’s your problem to deal with?” It could have come from a parent, a friend, a boss, or a partner. What is the story you told yourself at that moment? Here are some common ones: I’m

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Setting Boundaries for Happy Couple Holidays

Couples Counseling, Holiday, Relationship /

The holidays can be one of the most emotionally charged times of the year for couples. Families have long-held traditions, expectations, and opinions about how things “should” be done — and many newly married or long-term couples find themselves caught in the middle. Maybe one partner’s family expects everyone home for Christmas morning, while the other insists on the big dinner with their side that same evening. You love both families and want to please

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How Presence Turns Conflict into Connection

Couples Counseling, Relationship /

“Presence is the opposite of stonewalling, defensiveness, and zoning out. It’s choosing to feel instead of flee, to listen instead of argue, to reach instead of retreat.” The Vanishing Act Every couple knows this moment. You’re mid-conversation—maybe about finances, parenting, or something as small as leaving dishes in the sink—and suddenly, one of you disappears. Not physically, but emotionally. Eyes glaze over. Shoulders tense. One partner retreats into silence while the other presses harder, desperate

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How To Rebuild Trust After Betrayal (Even If It Feels Impossible)

Couples Counseling, Relationship /

“I’ll never stay with someone who cheats.” For most, cheating is the ultimate betrayal to experience in a relationship. How many of your friends have told you that they would never stay with a partner who cheats on them? Have you ever said that yourself? “Cheating is a deal breaker.” It seems so simple, easy. However, it is much easier said than done. Maybe you find out that a person you have been dating for

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How to Prepare for Couples Therapy (and Find the Right Therapist for You)

Anxiety, Couples Counseling, Depression, General, Growth, LGBTQ, Parenting, Relationship, Uncategorized /

Deciding to seek couples therapy is one of the bravest — and healthiest — steps you can take for your relationship. Still, it can feel intimidating. Many couples wonder: Where do we start? How do we know if we’re choosing the right therapist? What should we expect from the first few sessions? And let’s be honest — many of the people reading this fall into one of three groups: – You’ve tried therapy before and

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