Mon-Fri 9-8 | Sat-Sun 9-5

(619) 535-8890

The Relationship Place

Woman looking at her phone in distress after discovering long-distance infidelity

Dr. Dana McNeil Cited by Bored Panda on Infidelity in Long-Distance Relationships

Affairs/Infidelity, As Seen In /

When Bored Panda set out to explain why cheating so often follows couples across the miles, it reached for the work of Dr. Dana McNeil, PsyD, LMFT, founder of The Relationship Place and a Certified Gottman Therapist. The feature, which follows a viral story of a long-distance betrayal discovered on Facebook, draws directly on Dr. McNeil’s writing about infidelity in long-distance relationships and presents her as the clinical voice on why distance leaves even committed […]

Dr. Dana McNeil Cited by Bored Panda on Infidelity in Long-Distance Relationships Read More »

positive perspective couple

Positive Perspective: Moving From Commiseration to Connection

Relationship, Self-Esteem /

Why We Bond Through Shared Commiseration Does anyone else feel like they bond with others through shared commiseration? I bet you can recall a time. When you are with your friends, have you not complained about another friend? When you are with your family, there is always someone else in the family to be talked about. When you are with your partner, you complain about your day and the stress of life. I would even

Positive Perspective: Moving From Commiseration to Connection Read More »

couple towards we

Your Problem vs Our Problem: Shifting to the “We” Perspective

Relationship /

“That’s your problem to deal with.” We live in an individualistic society that tells us we need to take care of ourselves before we can form meaningful relationships with others. Can you recall a time when you were told “that’s your problem to deal with?” It could have come from a parent, a friend, a boss, or a partner. What is the story you told yourself at that moment? Here are some common ones: I’m

Your Problem vs Our Problem: Shifting to the “We” Perspective Read More »

couple and dog

How To Rebuild Trust After Betrayal (Even If It Feels Impossible)

Couples Counseling, Relationship /

“I’ll never stay with someone who cheats.” For most, cheating is the ultimate betrayal to experience in a relationship. How many of your friends have told you that they would never stay with a partner who cheats on them? Have you ever said that yourself? “Cheating is a deal breaker.” It seems so simple, easy. However, it is much easier said than done. Maybe you find out that a person you have been dating for

How To Rebuild Trust After Betrayal (Even If It Feels Impossible) Read More »

Ick

“The Ick” Or Intuition? Knowing When to Walk Away

Relationship /

The ick is usually a passing turn-off, not a real sign to walk away. A sudden “ick” over how someone chews, dresses or texts is most often about anxiety, self-protection or superficial preferences, and it can fade as you get to know the person. It’s worth taking seriously when it points to something deeper about character or how they treat you: contempt, defensiveness, refusing to talk through problems or being unwilling to be influenced. Those

“The Ick” Or Intuition? Knowing When to Walk Away Read More »

Modern Dating Dilemmas: Ghosting, Breadcrumbing, and “Situationships”

Modern Dating Dilemmas: Ghosting, Breadcrumbing, and “Situationships”

General, Relationship, Self-Esteem /

Have you ever considered the similarities between dating and fashion? Similar to fashion, dating has trends that come and go with the seasons and fan based popularity. Do you remember a time when people used terms such as “courting,” “going steady,” and “getting pinned” when referring to dating and romantic partners? Do you remember when using these terms stopped? Similar to fashion trends, these terms were popular for a period of time and then seemed

Modern Dating Dilemmas: Ghosting, Breadcrumbing, and “Situationships” Read More »

Author: <span>The Relationship Place</span>

Rebuilding Family Bonds After Stress or Trauma

Family Therapy, Parenting, Relationship /

A family rebuilds its relationships after stress or trauma by first restoring a sense of safety, then reopening communication in small, low-pressure steps, acknowledging the hurt that happened, and practicing new ways of listening and resolving conflict. Repair takes time and usually works best when every person’s experience is heard, including children’s. When distance or conflict runs deep, family therapy provides a guided, safe space to do this work together. Life is never short of

Rebuilding Family Bonds After Stress or Trauma Read More »

Author: <span>The Relationship Place</span>

When the “Surprise!” Isn’t What the Mom-to-Be Had in Mind – As Seen In – BoredPanda

As Seen In /

In a recent Reddit thread featured by Bored Panda, a soon-to-be mom shared a frustrating twist: her mother arranged a gender reveal party without inviting her or honoring her preferences. The mom went so far as to steal the pregnancy announcement and declare, “That’s right, we’re having a girl!”to everyone else. What the Experts Say Jeffrey Young, MA, LMFT, adds that these incidents often reflect deeper family dynamics. A parent imposing their celebration may be seeking

When the “Surprise!” Isn’t What the Mom-to-Be Had in Mind – As Seen In – BoredPanda Read More »

Finding A Great Therapist

Finding a Great Therapist: 14 Best Things to Do

Couples Counseling /

You’ve decided that therapy will be a helpful addition to your life. Finding a great therapist is a great way to ensure that therapy benefits your well-being as much as possible.   But where do you start? There are so many factors that go into choosing a skilled therapist that it can seem overwhelming. What exactly should you consider when trying to find a great therapist?  That’s what we’re here for. We’re going to go over

Finding a Great Therapist: 14 Best Things to Do Read More »

"Practicing Polyamory" Podcast

Practicing Polyamory – Podcast Interview

As Seen In, Relationship /

Having a solid foundation for your polyamorous relationship Relationships can sometimes face unrealistic societal standards. No matter what kind of relationship you’re in, there’s always something to achieve or strive for. Being in a polyamorous relationship, not only do you feel the pressure of achieving that unattainable perfection, but you also want to make sure when you’re working on that in your relationship that you feel heard, validated, and safe. I recently had the privilege

Practicing Polyamory – Podcast Interview Read More »

Scroll to Top